see theres nothing wrong with you noelle its just cuz your the eldest... the younger ones always get away with things... its always the eldest. See i have this theroy that parents try really hard with thier first kid to set them straight and away from drugs and alcohol and stuff like that, thats why theres all the strick rules... but then we dont follow those rules.. but they still try and imploment them as much as they can... by the time the next kid comes around they have givin up. anyways thats my theory well one of many... anyways i'm outta here cya