This group of friends has grown and changed and each of us has changed individually. Thats where the problems are. A lot has happened between people and hopefully a lot of the bad stuff can be forgotten so people can move on. We have to get used to who everyone is now and find a way to make it work. The neutral people have been trying to hold things together but thats not the way to solve the problems. Some conflicts are understandable and may have to be worked around. But others should be worked on by the individuals involved. If someone has a problem with someone else then its up to them to confront the problem and solve it. Its up to each individual to sort out who their friends are and whats most important to themselves. And if a conflict can be worked around then people should do whatever they can to fix it, for the sake of everyone else.